Tips when dating a married woman
More often than not, the relationship will lose its steam when the sex gets repetitive and boring and she will move on to someone else (or return to being faithful to her husband).
You are her second option and don't daydream about her divorcing her husband for you.
And don't ever kid yourself on this important point: He is still having sex with his wife, no matter what you may want to believe. Legally, financially and emotionally, you have no claim.
You may realize that you have no claim legally or financially, but you would think there'd be an emotional attachment or bond between you and your lover.
He knows that holding on to emotions that can only cause problems for his family is something he cannot and will not do. To safeguard yourself from too much emotional pain, you need to understand that he can only be a small part of your life and will never be more than that no matter how many promises are made.
You need to have a life that works and that is full enough to withstand the pain of the eventual breakup. A solid circle of friends and a social life separate from your hidden life with him is a necessity.
Life is no bollywood movie, so don't be surprised if she cancels on you at the last minute because something came up at home.
The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.
She is not his wife, she is not mother to his children, she is not his parents' daughter-in-law.
Her chance for happiness hinges on a future that is highly uncertain, to say the least.
Being involved in an affair with someone else's husband is an almost surefire trip from ecstatic highs at the beginning to a depressing abyss at the end.
Understand the basics of exactly what you are getting into, and what your status is.